子どもの情緒を安定させるには

Pocket

今から20年ほど前、私が学童保育の指導員をしていた頃、新1年生になった子どもたちが学校から帰ってきてすぐに始めた遊びは何だったか、分かりますか。

実は、ブロックや粘土といった遊びでした。

今と同じように、子どもたちが自由に選んで遊びだせる室内環境を用意していたので、子どもたちは思い思いに遊びだして良かったのですが、やんちゃな子でも粘土に向かって黙々とやっていたのを思い出します。

子どもたちは自ら心を落ち着かせていたのではないでしょうか。

それまでの環境と変わり、勉強も始まり、緊張もしていたことでしょう。

その心を落ち着かせるために子どもたちの粘土遊びを大事にしようと思いました。

そんな彼らも狭い教室にみんな集まってくるとなかなかにぎやかになってきます。

踏んだ触ったというトラブルも見られるようになりました。

そこの学童は、野外に連れ出してもいいという方針だったので、私は今と同じように、子どもたちを山や川に連れ出すことにしました。

すると子どもたちの様子に変化が見られるようになりました。

無用ないさかいやトラブルが減って、子どもたちが伸び伸びと過ごすようになってきたのです。

もちろん、喧嘩は0にはなりません。対立や喧嘩は悪いことではなく、学びにつながります。

しかし、彼らを野外に連れ出していく中で、彼らの情緒に変化が見られるようになったと感じられたのです。

何より、私の精神衛生上、「子どもを怒らなくて済む」というのは画期的ともいえることでした。

こうした実践を繰り返す中で、私は一つの持論にたどり着きました。

それは、

「子どもの情緒の安定とフィールドの広さは比例する」

というものです。

もちろん、情緒の安定にはフィールドの広さだけではないのですが、こう考えました。

(子どもの情緒を不安定にさせようと思ったら、狭い空間に閉じ込めて、私が「あれしなさい」「これしなさい」と指示命令し、「あれしちゃだめ」「これしちゃだめ」と禁止制限すれば、子どもは容易に不安定になる)

だとしたら、我々はこの逆をやればいい。

子どもを開放的な空間にいざない、自由に遊ばせる。

もちろん自然の中は危険なことも多いので(当時から犬目山や滝山城址、夏は秋川で毎日のように川遊びに連れて行っていましたから)気を付けないといけないことも多いのですが、それは知識・技術の問題。こちらがスキルを高めればいいこと。

まずは、子どもを自然で遊ばせる、と決めたのです。

では、野外に連れて行けば何でもいいのか、という点についてはまた後日、お話しします。

2017年10月1日父母講座から

滝山ネイチャークラブ

代表 堀岡正昭

“子どもの情緒を安定させるには” への197件の返信

  1. I’ve been browsing online more than 4 hours today, yet I never found any
    interesting article like yours. It’s pretty worth enough for
    me. In my opinion, if all website owners and bloggers made good content
    as you did, the web will be much more useful than ever before.

  2. You really make it appear really easy with your presentation however
    I to find this topic to be really one thing which I think I’d by no means understand.
    It seems too complex and extremely huge for me. I am taking a look ahead to your
    next put up, I’ll try to get the cling of it!

  3. Hello, I think your blog might be having browser compatibility issues.
    When I look at your blog site in Opera, it looks fine but when opening in Internet Explorer, it has some overlapping.
    I just wanted to give you a quick heads up!

    Other then that, amazing blog!

  4. I have been exploring for a bit for any high-quality
    articles or weblog posts in this sort of area . Exploring
    in Yahoo I finally stumbled upon this site. Studying this information So i am satisfied to
    express that I have an incredibly just right uncanny feeling I
    discovered just what I needed. I most undoubtedly will make sure to don?t forget this website and give it a glance on a continuing basis.

  5. Its like you read my mind! You appear to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something.
    I think that you could do with a few pics to drive the message home a
    little bit, but instead of that, this is wonderful blog.
    A great read. I will definitely be back.

  6. It’s a shame you don’t have a donate button! I’d most certainly donate
    to this excellent blog! I suppose for now i’ll settle for
    book-marking and adding your RSS feed to my Google
    account. I look forward to brand new updates and will share this
    site with my Facebook group. Chat soon!

  7. You can certainly see your expertise within the work you write.
    The sector hopes for more passionate writers such as you who aren’t afraid to say how they believe.
    Always go after your heart.

  8. Definitely believe that which you stated. Your favorite justification seemed to be on the web the easiest
    thing to be aware of. I say to you, I definitely get annoyed while
    people consider worries that they just don’t know about.

    You managed to hit the nail upon the top and defined out the whole thing without having side effect , people can take a signal.
    Will probably be back to get more. Thanks

  9. Hello! I know this is kinda off topic but I’d figured I’d ask.
    Would you be interested in exchanging links or maybe guest writing a blog post or vice-versa?
    My website goes over a lot of the same topics as yours and I feel we could greatly benefit from each other.
    If you might be interested feel free to shoot me an email.
    I look forward to hearing from you! Great blog by the way!

  10. wonderful post, very informative. I wonder why the opposite experts of this sector don’t
    notice this. You must proceed your writing.
    I am sure, you have a great readers’ base already!
    natalielise pof

  11. Does your website have a contact page? I’m having problems locating it but, I’d
    like to shoot you an e-mail. I’ve got some recommendations for your blog you might be interested in hearing.
    Either way, great blog and I look forward to
    seeing it expand over time.

  12. Does your website have a contact page? I’m having a tough
    time locating it but, I’d like to shoot you
    an e-mail. I’ve got some recommendations for your blog you might be interested in hearing.

    Either way, great blog and I look forward to seeing it develop over time.

  13. Hi, I do think this is a great blog. I stumbledupon it 😉 I’m
    going to come back yet again since I book marked it.
    Money and freedom is the greatest way to change, may
    you be rich and continue to guide other people. natalielise pof

  14. Unquestionably believe that which you stated. Your favorite
    justification appeared to be on the net the easiest thing to
    be aware of. I say to you, I certainly get irked while people think about worries that they just don’t know about.
    You managed to hit the nail upon the top as well as defined out the whole thing without having side-effects , people could take a signal.
    Will probably be back to get more. Thanks

  15. Hello there! This is my first visit to your blog!

    We are a group of volunteers and starting a new initiative
    in a community in the same niche. Your blog provided us
    useful information to work on. You have done a marvellous job!

  16. I do not know whether it’s just me or if perhaps everybody else encountering problems
    with your site. It appears as though some of the text
    within your content are running off the screen. Can somebody else please provide feedback and let me know if this
    is happening to them too? This might be a problem with my browser
    because I’ve had this happen previously. Cheers

  17. You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but
    I find this matter to be actually something which I think
    I would never understand. It seems too complex and
    extremely broad for me. I am looking forward for your next post, I will try to get the hang of it!

  18. This design is wicked! You most certainly know how to keep a reader amused.
    Between your wit and your videos, I was almost
    moved to start my own blog (well, almost…HaHa!) Fantastic job.
    I really enjoyed what you had to say, and more than that, how you
    presented it. Too cool!

  19. Do you have a spam issue on this website; I also am a blogger, and I
    was wanting to know your situation; many of us have
    developed some nice methods and we are looking to trade techniques with other folks, be sure to shoot me an email if interested.

  20. Hey! This is my first visit to your blog!
    We are a group of volunteers and starting a new
    initiative in a community in the same niche. Your blog provided
    us beneficial information to work on. You have done a marvellous job!

  21. Undeniably believe that which you said. Your favorite justification appeared to be on the internet the simplest thing to be aware of.
    I say to you, I certainly get irked while people consider worries that
    they plainly do not know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the top and defined out the whole
    thing without having side effect , people could take a signal.
    Will probably be back to get more. Thanks

  22. You’re so awesome! I don’t believe I’ve read a single thing like that before.
    So good to find another person with a few original thoughts on this subject matter.
    Seriously.. thank you for starting this up.
    This web site is one thing that is needed on the internet, someone with a
    little originality!

  23. Hi there! This post couldn’t be written any better! Reading this post reminds me of my good old room mate!
    He always kept talking about this. I will forward this write-up
    to him. Pretty sure he will have a good read. Many thanks for
    sharing!

  24. Hello there, I do believe your blog may be having internet browser compatibility problems.

    Whenever I look at your blog in Safari, it looks fine however, if opening in Internet Explorer, it’s got some overlapping issues.
    I simply wanted to provide you with a quick heads
    up! Aside from that, fantastic site!

  25. Greetings from California! I’m bored to tears at work so I decided to check
    out your website on my iphone during lunch break. I enjoy the information you present here and can’t wait to take a look when I get home.
    I’m amazed at how fast your blog loaded on my cell phone ..
    I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyhow, wonderful blog!

  26. Howdy! This is my first visit to your blog!
    We are a group of volunteers and starting a new project in a community in the same niche.
    Your blog provided us useful information to work on. You have done
    a wonderful job!

  27. I must thank you for the efforts you have put in writing this site.
    I’m hoping to view the same high-grade blog posts from you in the future as well.
    In truth, your creative writing abilities has encouraged me to get my very own site
    now 😉

  28. Somebody essentially assist to make critically posts I might
    state. This is the first time I frequented your website page and
    up to now? I amazed with the analysis you made to
    create this particular submit extraordinary. Fantastic process!

  29. Someone necessarily assist to make seriously posts I might
    state. This is the first time I frequented your
    website page and thus far? I amazed with the analysis you made to create this actual put up amazing.
    Great job!

  30. Greetings from California! I’m bored to death at work so I decided to
    check out your site on my iphone during lunch break.
    I enjoy the information you provide here and can’t wait to take a look when I get home.

    I’m amazed at how quick your blog loaded on my phone ..

    I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyhow, amazing
    site!

  31. I have been surfing on-line greater than 3 hours nowadays,
    but I by no means discovered any interesting article like yours.
    It is beautiful worth sufficient for me.
    Personally, if all website owners and bloggers made excellent content material as you probably did, the
    internet will be a lot more useful than ever before.

  32. Its like you read my mind! You appear to know so much about this, like
    you wrote the book in it or something. I think that
    you can do with some pics to drive the message home a little bit,
    but instead of that, this is wonderful blog.
    A fantastic read. I will definitely be back.

  33. Hello There. I found your weblog the usage of msn. This is an extremely well written article.
    I’ll be sure to bookmark it and return to learn more of your helpful info.
    Thank you for the post. I will definitely return.

  34. Pretty section of content. I just stumbled upon your weblog and in accession capital to assert
    that I get in fact enjoyed account your blog posts.
    Any way I will be subscribing to your feeds and even I achievement you access consistently fast.

  35. Hello there! I know this is kind of off topic but I was wondering which blog
    platform are you using for this website? I’m getting tired of WordPress because I’ve had issues with
    hackers and I’m looking at options for another platform.

    I would be great if you could point me in the direction of a good
    platform.

  36. Heya i’m for the primary time here. I came across this board and I to find It really helpful & it helped me out
    much. I am hoping to provide one thing again and aid others such as you
    helped me.

  37. I was more than happy to find this great site.
    I need to to thank you for ones time for this wonderful read!!
    I definitely savored every part of it and i also have you saved
    as a favorite to see new information in your site.

  38. Simply desire to say your article is as astonishing.
    The clearness on your post is just excellent and that i can suppose you’re a professional on this subject.
    Well along with your permission allow me to take hold of your RSS feed to keep updated with imminent post.
    Thank you one million and please keep up the rewarding work.

  39. Thanks for your marvelous posting! I really enjoyed reading it, you will be a great author.I will make certain to bookmark your
    blog and may come back someday. I want to encourage you to ultimately continue your great posts, have a nice afternoon!

  40. This design is incredible! You certainly know how to
    keep a reader amused. Between your wit and your
    videos, I was almost moved to start my own blog (well, almost…HaHa!) Wonderful job.
    I really enjoyed what you had to say, and more than that, how you presented it.
    Too cool!

  41. What i do not understood is in truth how you’re
    now not really much more well-appreciated than you may be right now.

    You’re very intelligent. You already know therefore considerably on the subject of this matter, made me personally believe it from numerous various
    angles. Its like women and men don’t seem to be involved until it’s something to do with Lady gaga!
    Your own stuffs nice. At all times care for it up!

  42. You actually make it appear really easy together with your presentation but I in finding this matter to be really something which I think
    I might by no means understand. It seems too complex and very vast
    for me. I am taking a look forward in your next put
    up, I’ll try to get the hold of it!

  43. I’m truly enjoying the design and layout of your blog.
    It’s a very easy on the eyes which makes it much more enjoyable for me to
    come here and visit more often. Did you hire out a designer to create your theme?

    Superb work!

  44. magnificent submit, very informative. I ponder why the opposite specialists
    of this sector don’t understand this. You must continue your writing.
    I’m sure, you’ve a huge readers’ base already!

  45. An intriguing discussion is definitely worth comment. I do think that you should write
    more about this issue, it may not be a taboo subject but
    usually folks don’t talk about such subjects.
    To the next! Best wishes!!

  46. Hi there would you mind letting me know which hosting company you’re using?

    I’ve loaded your blog in 3 completely different internet
    browsers and I must say this blog loads a lot faster then most.
    Can you recommend a good hosting provider at a fair price?
    Thank you, I appreciate it!

  47. Its like you learn my thoughts! You appear to grasp a lot approximately this, such as you wrote the book in it
    or something. I think that you simply could do with a few percent
    to pressure the message home a bit, but instead of that, this is
    fantastic blog. A great read. I will definitely be back.

  48. Hi there! I know this is somewhat off topic but I was wondering which blog platform are you using for this site?
    I’m getting tired of WordPress because I’ve had
    issues with hackers and I’m looking at alternatives for
    another platform. I would be fantastic if you could point me in the direction of
    a good platform.

  49. Pretty great post. I just stumbled upon your weblog and wanted to mention that I’ve really
    enjoyed browsing your blog posts. In any case I’ll be subscribing on your feed and I hope you write once more very soon!

  50. Do you mind if I quote a couple of your posts as long as I provide credit and sources back to your blog?
    My blog is in the exact same niche as yours and my users
    would genuinely benefit from a lot of the information you provide here.
    Please let me know if this ok with you. Thanks a
    lot!

  51. I used to be recommended this blog by means of my cousin. I am now
    not certain whether this submit is written through him as no one
    else realize such designated approximately my difficulty.
    You’re incredible! Thank you!

  52. We are a gaggle of volunteers and starting a new scheme in our
    community. Your site provided us with useful information to work on. You have performed a formidable task and
    our entire neighborhood can be grateful to you.

  53. Very good site you have here but I was curious about if you knew of any discussion boards
    that cover the same topics discussed here? I’d really love to be
    a part of group where I can get feedback from other knowledgeable individuals that share the same interest.
    If you have any suggestions, please let me know. Thanks a lot!

  54. Hey there! I could have sworn I’ve been to this website before but after checking through some
    of the post I realized it’s new to me. Anyhow, I’m definitely glad I found it and I’ll be bookmarking and checking back frequently!

  55. Hmm it seems like your site ate my first comment (it was super long) so I guess I’ll just sum
    it up what I wrote and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying
    your blog. I as well am an aspiring blog writer but I’m still new to everything.
    Do you have any recommendations for beginner blog writers?
    I’d genuinely appreciate it.

  56. Pretty element of content. I simply stumbled upon your web site and in accession capital to
    claim that I acquire in fact loved account your
    weblog posts. Anyway I’ll be subscribing on your feeds or even I success you get admission to
    constantly fast.

  57. Hey there are using WordPress for your site platform?

    I’m new to the blog world but I’m trying to get started and set up my own. Do you need any coding expertise to make your own blog?
    Any help would be really appreciated!

  58. I loved as much as you will receive carried out right here.
    The sketch is tasteful, your authored subject matter stylish.

    nonetheless, you command get bought an edginess over that you wish be delivering the following.

    unwell unquestionably come more formerly again as exactly the same nearly a lot often inside case you shield this hike.

  59. Heya! I understand this is sort of off-topic but I needed to ask.
    Does running a well-established website like yours require a lot
    of work? I am brand new to writing a blog however I do write in my diary daily.
    I’d like to start a blog so I can share my experience and thoughts online.
    Please let me know if you have any ideas or tips for new aspiring blog owners.

    Appreciate it!

  60. Howdy, I think your blog could be having web browser compatibility issues.

    When I look at your blog in Safari, it looks fine
    however, if opening in Internet Explorer, it’s got some overlapping issues.
    I just wanted to provide you with a quick heads up!

    Aside from that, great site!

  61. Great article! That is the kind of info that are meant to be shared
    across the net. Disgrace on the search engines for not positioning this put up upper!
    Come on over and seek advice from my site .

    Thanks =)

  62. Just wish to say your article is as astounding.
    The clarity in your post is just spectacular
    and i can assume you’re an expert on this subject. Well with your permission let me
    to grab your feed to keep updated with forthcoming
    post. Thanks a million and please keep up the enjoyable
    work.

  63. I like the helpful information you provide to your articles.
    I’ll bookmark your weblog and test once more here frequently.
    I am somewhat certain I will be told lots of new stuff right here!
    Good luck for the following!

  64. I’m extremely impressed with your writing skills and also with the format to your weblog.
    Is this a paid topic or did you customize it your
    self? Anyway stay up the excellent quality writing, it’s rare to peer a great blog like this one
    nowadays..

  65. We never shut down for the flu, sars, swine flu, or other viruses. I do believe much, not all, is political. President Trump is hated by the left and some right, and want to stop him from being reelected, and blame him for all of our troubles. Our government and many governors are corrupt.

  66. Call the Obama’s and see what they think of their candidate Biden now. See if they are still impressed with his leadership. Biden is now truly showing his true colors, and letting everyone see who is really is. When he doesn’t have someone around to control what he says or does, he let’s his true self come out.

  67. Hmm it appears like your site ate my first comment (it
    was super long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up what
    I wrote and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog.
    I too am an aspiring blog writer but I’m still new to everything.

    Do you have any tips for first-time blog writers?
    I’d definitely appreciate it.

    Take a look at my homepage – buy CBD oils

  68. Howdy this is somewhat of off topic but I was wanting to know if blogs use WYSIWYG editors
    or if you have to manually code with HTML. I’m starting a blog soon but have no coding experience so I wanted to get guidance from someone with experience.
    Any help would be greatly appreciated!

    Check out my website: CBD oil UK

  69. Why isnt it the fault of the abusers?? Everybody fusses about our rights, etc but then blames the government for everything and ask why they didnt do more. Cant be both ways, if they give the money and they need to be able to see it is used as they want everyone will be yelling about privacy, government involvement, etc. There are crooks everywhere!!!! Personnal accountability!!!

  70. Today, while I was at work, my cousin stole my iphone and tested
    to see if it can survive a 25 foot drop, just so she can be a youtube sensation. My apple ipad is now
    destroyed and she has 83 views. I know this is totally off topic but I had
    to share it with someone!

    Here is my webpage … Blessed CBD

  71. Hey I know this is off topic but I was wondering if you knew of any widgets I could add to my
    blog that automatically tweet my newest twitter updates.
    I’ve been looking for a plug-in like this for quite some time and was hoping maybe you would have some
    experience with something like this. Please let me know if you run into anything.
    I truly enjoy reading your blog and I look forward to your new updates.

    Here is my homepage – CBD oil UK

コメントを残す

メールアドレスが公開されることはありません。 * が付いている欄は必須項目です